Friday, October 25, 2013

Ending on a good note


Leaving on a good note rarely happens.

This is how Paul left the letter of 1 Corinthians 16:23-24…”The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you. My love to all of you in Christ Jesus. Amen.”

This past week I had a friend Matt Troyer move from his church to a new church where he felt God calling him to go. On Wednesday he had a going away festivity at the church. It was awesome to see a good group of people there to see him go. The church took up a collection for him. People stood up and had nice encouraging words for him and his family as they left. How often do we get to leave on a good note?

Most people don’t leave on a high note. I think of professional football and it’s rare someone leaves when they are on top of their game. Often they weren’t the star player and got cut. I remember stud Brian Urlacher and when he retired this past year in part no team really wanted him. Tim Tebow just wanted another chance to show he was a winner. I remember when Barry Sanders retired and thinking NO! He had good years left. It’s tough to leave on a positive note. I think of people that retire way past there prime or when someone gets laid off or cut and they were good employees. We often in life don’t always get to leave on a good note. Sometimes it’s within our control and sometimes it’s not.

Paul leaves his letter on a good note. He wrote the letter trying to work on conflict that came up in the church and had to say some harsh and be pretty blunt with the people. Through it all, he did it out of love. Through all the conflict and harsh reminders he had to give he reminded them he loved them.

When you leave do you leave on a good note? No matter what Hailee and I have this agreement. Whether we are fighting or not, when we leave each other whether it’s going to work or to pickup the kids from school to leave saying I love you and meaning it. You never know when it’s your time to go.

How can you leave on a good note? Whether it’s going to work/school when was the last time you told those close to you, you love them? Paul ends this letter on a good note. How are you going to leave?

Have a great day.